It turns out she’s been making several mistakes, since the beginning of their relationship.
Many new daters hold back on what they know they will need for fear that a new partner may feel turned off by the responsibility to provide it.
They offer, instead, all the things they feel will be pluses for that new partner to continue the relationship, and rationalize that foundation will make it easier for them to reveal the rest of them at a later point in time.
In order to resolve this all-too-common dilemma, many new daters are willing to act more independent and autonomous than they actually feel.
Many relationships have problems or end because one of the partners is too needy or too “clingy.” Being needy is one of the most unattractive qualities in a man from a woman’s perspective, because it suggests that the guy is lacking confidence and might not have a life, among other things, and therefore he is being so clingy to that one person – her – depending on her to make him happy.
Some people, who are inquisitive enough to reflect on their own behavior, realize that they are clingy and start thinking about how they can address their behavior in present or future relationships.