Body language is like a secret language that most men fail to grasp the importance of.But, it is a key part of your confidence that is going to make you into the ultimate alpha male.It’s an all-too-common scenario: You’re chatting up a gorgeous woman you just met at a bar, but after 20 minutes of conversation, you still have absolutely no clue whether or not she’s interested.Before you back off, too afraid to make a play, start cluing into her body language. Signals like these—and plenty of others—can be not-so-secret indicators of how she feels about you.Whether it's the way your brand new dress hugs every inch of your body, or you've got spaghetti sauce smeared across your face — you have to wonder what he's thinking and figure out how to tell if he's really into you. Surprisingly so, men are pre-programmed to send out physical clues when they're interested in a woman. Read this excerpt of Superflirt by Tracey Cox and learn how to decode any guy's body language with ease.Legend has it that men make the first move, then plead, cajole, wine, dine and basically bribe (via chocolates, flowers and dinner dates) women into their bachelor pads to either a) have their wicked way or b) get down on one knee.Women tend to be much more in tune to body language then men.
When we first see someone we're attracted to, our eyebrows rise and fall. The whole thing lasts about a fifth of a second and it happens everywhere in the world — to everyone regardless of age, race or class.When they touch their necks, they are feeling sexy, and if they rub their thigh as they cross and uncross their legs, they are sending flirtatious signals. Even if the touch seems accidental and lasts only a moment, touching is a communication sign that signals trust or aggressiveness, either of which means a woman is ready to move the communication closer, or at least to another level. A direct look that lasts longer than a few seconds can indicate interest.If the woman's pupils become dilated while you stare into her eyes, she may be getting aroused and want to see more of you.What It Means: She’s Intrigued “When we’re really interested in someone, we’ll likely find ourselves mimicking that person’s posture, gestures, facial expressions, and even their speech patterns and choice of key words and phrases,” says Vincent Harris, a body-language expert who has appeared on CNN, , and Fox News.However, when no attraction exists, we won’t do much to match their body language.You lock eyes with the handsome man sitting across the dimly lit bar, and instantly, 1,000 questions rip roar through your mind — is he single? Is he sitting by himself simply because his date is late?But when the eye contact continues, you know he's looking for a reason.Chances are, you’re underestimating the meaning behind her moves. To help you decode exactly what her postures, motions, and moves really mean, we’ve enlisted the help of two body-language experts.Next time you’re at a bar, a party, or even hanging out in the park, use these signals to decide whether to put yourself out there—or retreat with your dignity still intact.To avoid coming off as threatening, a woman may hold your gaze for a quick moment, but return for a second look to assure you of her interest.When that second look is accompanied by a smile, she is flirting with you.