When you have a fulfilling life of your own that exists completely separate from him, you will automatically be seen as having great value.When your happiness is rooted in all sorts of things, not just him, you will never have to watch what you say or do for fear of coming off as needy because you will never be needy.By that, I mean fill your life with fun, meaningful activities.And do not cancel any of these fun, meaningful activities just because he calls and wants to see you.
If you want to know exactly what makes a man commit and how to make him commit to you (and only you), then take a look at this article here: MORE: 4 Ways To Make Him Commit and Want Only You I met this guy years ago, let’s call him Craig.From his profile, John seemed like a cool guy, so Jane thought, “Hey, why not just meet him and see how this goes?” (FYI, John was 39 then.) And so they met for their first date. In a last ditch effort to salvage the situation, Jane, without even thinking, started pouring her heart out to John over the phone. This is a reference which I’ve seen many seduction trainers, various date coaches, and friends use.While I have never thought much about this reference in the past, immersing into the dating world into the past few weeks have made me consider it in much depth.While guys enjoy the pursuit, they hate it when you act in a way that is deliberately trying to get them to chase you. And to be clear, that is not what I’m talking about here.I am not saying get him to pursue you by acting unavailable, I’m saying actually be unavailable.What’s so wrong with being an open, honest, vulnerable, pro-active real woman with her own mind, a body and soul? If all you attract is frustration, disappointment and hurt, change the way you approach dating and the way you relate to the opposite sex. 5) If you really are into him but the relationship is not as “hot” as you want it to be, be proactive and do something about it.Every time we set up unrealistic, counter-productive and sometimes even ridiculous “rules” that assume that all men and all women react the same way to the same situation rather than that relationships are an interplay between two unique individuals, we set ourselves up for frustration, hurt and disillusion. Stop treating dating like a game or a necessary evil you have to endure (to get to heaven) and instead see it as a journey of self-discovery. 6) If something is bothering you about the relationship, talk to him about it.Think playing mind games with men smacks of unscrupulous femme fatale-style manipulation? The game plan: No matter how badly you want to dial his digits or reply to his e-mails, you're better off curbing your enthusiasm when you're first dating. "Games are the way we keep romance alive," says Helen Fisher, Ph D, author of . Playing hard-to-get or leaving a little to the imagination allows the woman to be wooed and appreciated and the man to be challenged and intrigued." What makes these courtship contact sports so appealing is that there are no losers and they pave the way to building a relationship that's humming with excitement. Play these five games with him and we promise you'll score.