Every time you go to a restaurant, the staff will glare at you both — him for being shallow and you for being a gold digger.
This may not be the case, but whether it is or not, taking on daily public scrutiny like this is no picnic.
Try Googling images of 50-year-olds and 70-year-olds and see how many more of these lines the latter group has.
If he encourages you to do this before you’re ready, you will forever resent him for what you missed out on.
He regularly referred to sex as “getting busy,” or “knocking boots,” which is a lot more of a turn-off when such phrases are used on the first date, believe me.
You guys should consider what it will be like for a much younger lady to age by your side as you really age.
It will happen a whole lot earlier for him than it will for you, so you’ll get jealous of his increased free time while he’ll start demanding more of your attention to fill up his long, empty hours, even though you’re still an occupied professional.
You’re already going to have elderly parents to deal with as the years progress.
That said; the positives of marrying someone older have been rapidly lost in a world where “young love” is often touted as the best kind. You’ll always be the “young one.”After all, she’s old, too.
And by that, I don’t mean “you won’t ever have financial trouble,” rather, when you do have issues, he’ll probably be stable enough from maturity and that he won’t freak out.