How to be more proactive in dating

Without knowing your personal definition of successful love, the result will be a sense of reaching for something but not attaining it.Starting now, you can change that experience with this practical and doable list of steps you can easily incorporate as you ring in 2013.It’s a cluster of self-limiting beliefs that holds people back from meeting new and exciting potential partners, whether it’s for sex or for relationships.This is one of the most pernicious myths about dating out there.Not only that, but we feel as if the act of blatantly asking out a man will cause us to appear desperate and send the wrong message.However, there are ways to take action without foregoing your feminine energy.Because sex is so much more easily attainable for women – or so the conventional wisdom goes – they have luxury of being able to define the standards which men must meet, wantonly cutting off men who are not rich, tall douchebags with square jaws and fast cars.Men feel helpless; they feel that they are forced to leap through hoops in order to win women’s approval and hope that she will pick him against all odds. In fact, not only is the idea that women somehow control all the power in sex and dating not true, but it’s a case of people asking the wrong question.

They are The Choosers, the gatekeepers to the Promised Land, cruel temptresses who taunt men by being attractive and yet unavailable.

More than 1 in 4 men told us they expected to be asked out, suggesting women could be having more dates (and probably better ones!

), if only they were more daring and starting asking more.

Here are the steps I suggest to launch the beginning of your shift from : Step One: See The Love Goal.

Like many people, you can probably list in detail your accomplishments and vision for your career path.