The first message I opened was from a guy asking how my weekend was and about a few things that I mentioned on my profile.
He didn’t objectify me and asked about substantial topics.
Her online day involves clearing her inbox of hundreds of e-mails from guys that are all similar; all begging, and all lame. You MUST stand out or you will fail, plain and simple. Well, she knows that most men simply send many similar copy-and-paste messages out to loads of girls online hoping to get a single response from just one of the women.
She’s evolved to recognize and ignore these types of initial messages.
ou’ve spotted a profile online you’re smitten with. I’m afraid that if it turns out to not be true, I might wind up in the middle of the Lincoln Center Barnes & Noble curled up in a ball weeping and muttering something about attractive women and the lies they tell, covered in all of Nabokov’s work.
Make a positive impression and you’re halfway to getting laid.While I can only truly speak for myself, I feel like women are more picky than men because a lot of the time we want something more than a hot piece of ass to hang out with.We want someone we can emotionally connect to, be attracted to, and perhaps even have a conversation with.However, our panel agrees that his email could have shown a bit more confidence.Also, the astonishment he expresses over her beauty/brains combo could be seen as offensive. She emailed him back, and the two are happily dating. I see that you recently saw the show Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Dreamcoat. I look forward to hearing from you.-Brad The feedback:“The open-ended question doesn’t bother me as much as what the question is about: the play.Probably the most difficult part of online dating is the first message that you send to a new woman you’ve found.By nature this is obviously going to be an entirely subjective topic, but I’ve figured out one particular online dating first message that truly shines and has worked amazingly for me.Subject Line: Sorry, no pictures of my junk included…Email: This may come as a surprise to you, but I’m going to make you wait to see the Family Jewels.This morning I opened my inbox on Ok Cupid to 5 new messages.I typically read through all the messages despite the notion that women just delete them sight unseen.